Another Question... But this one isn't as awkward...

So most of my friends are guys. And my boyfriend has never had a problem with that.
And I'm also a very huggy person. I always hug people. He's also never had a problem with that.

But I just got done speaking to him... And he said that recently he's started getting jealous when I hug even anyone. I told him I wouldn't hug anyone anymore (which will be tough cuz I'm so used to the hugginess). But he said he felt bad cuz he felt like he was controlling me and shit.

I can't even hug my best friend anymore.

I just need some other minds besides my own.

Anyone have any thoughts?

I won't talk to him much until he gets back from his dad's so I've got a day or two to figure out what to tell him.

Hug him more and get a free hug for every two hugs you give him.

You need a blog.

^This.

Should I make an advice section? If you love him then you should respect that he doesn't want you all over other guys even if you don't like them like that. But I sense your best friend is a danger to your relationship. Wait until you and your guy get into a fight and you run to your best friend for a shoulder to cry on. It's classic. Anyway, asking you to funnel your attention towards himself instead of at other guys is not unreasonable. I can tell you right now he senses the connection between you and your best friend. Do you think him all of a sudden being jealous and the recent injection of your best friend into your circle is a coincidence? I don't.

Yeah, it'd probably be best to make an advice section.
Or if she gets a blog. One of the two.

NiteKrawler wrote:

Should I make an advice section? If you love him then you should respect that he doesn't want you all over other guys even if you don't like them like that. But I sense your best friend is a danger to your relationship. Wait until you and your guy get into a fight and you run to your best friend for a shoulder to cry on. It's classic. Anyway, asking you to funnel your attention towards himself instead of at other guys is not unreasonable. I can tell you right now he senses the connection between you and your best friend. Do you think him all of a sudden being jealous and the recent injection of your best friend into your circle is a coincidence? I don't.

I know. I've thot about this a lot the past two days and I finally got to talk to him last night for about 30 minutes. We talked about it and I understand completely now. I can give up hugging other guys. And I'm sure my best friend will understand.
I don't care what I have to do, I don't want to lose my boyfriend. Not again. There was a week where we broke up and it was the worst time of my life. I've never felt so much pain. I felt like I had died and cried constantly. I never cry... I've learned not to. But I couldn't help myself then. So I'm not as concerned about the hugging thing now.

As for the advice section- That'd be cool. Lol

Crying is good. It cleans your eyes.

And soul.

That too. Don't be afraid to cry. It feels good to cry if you are very sad about something (at least for me).

Women cry. Men go out and shoot stuff.

I don't cry. When I cry my parents scream. So I quit. Even when I'm extreamly upset. If I cry at all it's normally if I cry myself to sleep. The week that me and my boyfriend we apart I endured screaming and even got slapped once. I didn't give a shit tho.

What... the hell is wrong with your parents.

I really wish I knew...