Relationship Drama

Okay, so my ex and i have not spoken in three months and all of a sudden she started calling and texting me nonstop. she is saying she wants to be with me, im saying i dont love her anymore, and it keeps going in this circle. she is even dating someone else now and ive brought this up to her several times, but according to her he is 'okay with us being friends and talking'. does anyone know what i could possibly do to make this stop? its really starting to grind me down, and i cant block her number because then she just finds some other way to bug me. like my parents and friends.

more importantly, i dont want to get put in the middle of her new 'relationship' and have the dude blame and be pissed at me even though im doing everything i can think of to get her to leave me alone. im not worried about getting my ass kicked, ashland,kentucky is about 30 hours away from slc, ut and besides that, the guy is way smaller than me and i dont fight fair... so does anyone have an input, what did you guys say to make a girl hate you enough to leave you alone?

Reede1991 wrote:

what did you guys say to make a girl hate you enough to leave you alone?

"I hate Twilight."

I actually was in a similar situation. She has since stopped contacting me that often because I spoke and acted really cold towards her. I didn't actually TRY to do this but I just couldn't act normally with her anymore. Btw. that ex you're talking about really should get her priorities straight.

@Nite: lol xD

Mass Distraction wrote:

I actually was in a similar situation. She has since stopped contacting me that often because I spoke and acted really cold towards her. I didn't actually TRY to do this but I just couldn't act normally with her anymore. Btw. that ex you're talking about really should get her priorities straight.

@Nite: lol xD

tell me about it i dont understand it at all. im being a huge dick to her, saying things that i feel bad about afterword(not letting her know btw) and she just keeps coming back and apologizing after I tear her down and she begs me to come back. everything i throw at her she just feeds off of... UGH! its so frustrating, especially since i thought it was done with three months ago.


sadly the twilight thing did not work.
me-"i hate twilight"
LONG PAUSE
her-"i hate it too because it reminds me of what we had"
me-"we were never vampires or werewolves you stupid bitch. and what we did have is gone and its not coming back. i dont love you anymore"
her-"i still love you, ill change anything you want me to"
me-"............"
I HANG UP
me-"well, that didnt work"

any other ideas?

Reede1991 wrote:

Mass Distraction wrote:

I actually was in a similar situation. She has since stopped contacting me that often because I spoke and acted really cold towards her. I didn't actually TRY to do this but I just couldn't act normally with her anymore. Btw. that ex you're talking about really should get her priorities straight.

@Nite: lol xD

tell me about it i dont understand it at all. im being a huge dick to her, saying things that i feel bad about afterword(not letting her know btw) and she just keeps coming back and apologizing after I tear her down and she begs me to come back. everything i throw at her she just feeds off of... UGH! its so frustrating, especially since i thought it was done with three months ago.


sadly the twilight thing did not work.
me-"i hate twilight"
LONG PAUSE
her-"i hate it too because it reminds me of what we had"
me-"we were never vampires or werewolves you stupid bitch. and what we did have is gone and its not coming back. i dont love you anymore"
her-"i still love you, ill change anything you want me to"
me-"............"
I HANG UP
me-"well, that didnt work"

any other ideas?

Im a girl, I should know.. *clears throat*

You could always act as if you don't know her. Literally..
If she calls you just go, "Who is this?" blabh-blah-blah
then you go "sorry im busy with trying to find a new babe (yadayadayada)
I dont need a cheap ass hooker right now. kthankyou bye."

Or just ignore her completely. '_'

NiteKrawler wrote:

Reede1991 wrote:

what did you guys say to make a girl hate you enough to leave you alone?

"I hate Twilight."

Go with this one.

Reede1991 wrote:

any other ideas?

"I love Twilight."

i dont think any amount of twilight hatred or love is going to help at this point. im just going to try calling her a prostitute though, i dont think ive used it enough and it just might be able to piss her off enough to keep her away... im gonna feel horrible after this

In this kind of situation you just have to suck it up.

I don't like being mean either but sometimes you just have to.

i hate my life. she asked me to mail her my sperm so she can have a baby from me. couldnt say anything. thats like someone walking up to you on the street and asking if you want to poop on their chest or something. threw me really off guard. ended up calling at&t and had her blocked on three of my friends phones, my family's plan, and my phone. hopefully its the last ill hear from her

Wow. Thank God I didn't have it that bad O.o (not that she would've been all that interested in getting back together though)
That's fucked up, dood. Hope she leaves you be now. Seriously.

Ew. She said that? >_> That woman needs a slap.
Anyway, I hope she keeps away from you. Geez. =_=

Methsia wrote:

That woman needs a slap.

And some serious mental help.




Nite?

shes getting therapy actually. you can see what good it is doing. right? right? wrong. she is five times as batshit insane as the day i met her. but she cant contact me anymore, so thank god. she always blames her previous relationship on everything because he... well he beat the shit out of her. i know shes obsessed with me because i made him stop, but i was happy when i ended it with her.

You can't help anyone who doesn't want help. Psychiatrists/psychologists are not magic, no matter what most people believe.

NiteKrawler wrote:

You can't help anyone who doesn't want help. Psychiatrists/psychologists are not magic, no matter what most people believe.

amen.

Maybe I am TOTALLY off here but it kinda seems like she might fucking with you dude. Really does this not sound like some kind of try at revenge?

Maybe she is doing all of this just to throw you off, for her own lulz.

Again I do not know her and could be wrong but it just kinda seems that way to me.

But just remember...

oh, the sex was FANTASTIC. but revenge and insanity are two totally different things. not only does she not have the patience to keep a revenge scheme running smoothly, but she is literally that fucking crazy. havnt heard anything from her, im just mentally preparing myself until she gets another phone.

Reede1991 wrote:

oh, the sex was FANTASTIC. but revenge and insanity are two totally different things. not only does she not have the patience to keep a revenge scheme running smoothly, but she is literally that fucking crazy. havnt heard anything from her, im just mentally preparing myself until she gets another phone.

Ok, that woman is f*cking crazy <_<. would she really
get a new phone just to talk to you?!

@mass distraction:

haha love it


@methsia:

a go phone is only 'OUTRAGEOUSLY' like fifteen 'MILLION' bucks ',AND YOUR FIRST-BORN CHILD' from walmart. its just a matter of time until she figures it 'IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR US TO WORK' out

Reede1991 wrote:

a go phone is only like fifteen bucks from walmart. its just a matter of time until she figures it out

It's a good thing she most likely is not reading this.

Mass Distraction wrote:

Reede1991 wrote:

a go phone is only like fifteen bucks from walmart. its just a matter of time until she figures it out

It's a good thing she most likely is not reading this.

....................................god DAMNIT. editing now

If you are reading this Reede's ex, keep at it! If he resists, it just means it is working. Good luck!