Females -_-

Cant live with em can live without them. Wow my female is a huge bitch IMO constantly spending my xmas money on her damn family and then wanting 120 to go get her hair done. Now I know why so many people commit suicide during the holidays cause god damn that shit is annoying. How come when I get money = both of our munnies? I worked for it their for I should spend it how I see fit.

Instead she spent over 100 bucks on her damn niece and nephew, 80 on herself for a coat, over 150 on my son which I aint got a problem with, 10 for slippers for me and now she wants to go to the damn stylist are u FUCKIN KIDDIN ME!!!!!! Soooo I get a pair of slippers and somehow Im the asshole cause I throw a rage about spending my money on her damn family but yea wooooo neo gots a pair of slippers for 10 while you get $200 for xmas. ALL I bought was a damn gamecube for myself cause thats my gift to myself but geez im heated right now.

FINE I dont need your money and she throws 70 at me, I aint gonna feel remorse or apologize toward her cause she needs to see the fault in her action about spending money and thinkin I dont have any say on what or who you spend it on. I dont care if its only your money but if u use my money as well then we got a problem.

Had TO VENT before I put fist thru wall/head

You have to realize that this is partly your fault. How did she get your money? Either you have a joint bank account or you gave it to her. If you want it to stop, then you need to have a private account or just stop giving her your money. You have to do something though because money problems are the biggest obstacle in relationships. If you are married then a lot of people will say that it is healthy to share the money. That doesn't always work. You earn the money, it is yours. You have the right to limit her spending of it or outright stopping her spending of it. If she doesn't like it and wants to leave, you have to work that out as well. If she really is spending an excessive amount of money that is not hers though, she needs to realize that what she is doing is wrong and is hurting her relationship with you.

NiteKrawler wrote:

You have to realize that this is partly your fault. How did she get your money? Either you have a joint bank account or you gave it to her. If you want it to stop, then you need to have a private account or just stop giving her your money. You have to do something though because money problems are the biggest obstacle in relationships. If you are married then a lot of people will say that it is healthy to share the money. That doesn't always work. You earn the money, it is yours. You have the right to limit her spending of it or outright stopping her spending of it. If she doesn't like it and wants to leave, you have to work that out as well. If she really is spending an excessive amount of money that is not hers though, she needs to realize that what she is doing is wrong and is hurting her relationship with you.

she beat up on me and started yelling and wished i go to hell and shes layin besides me on the bed right now constantly crying shit gets old fast.

My Mum's constantly like that with my Dad. Why do married women
think they're freaking queen Elizabeth. I know I'm a member of the
'Female Species' but trust me when I say I ain't that kind of person.

this is the reason why i'm never getting married. All I can say is:

Damn you need to talk to that woman.

Neotris wrote:

NiteKrawler wrote:

You have to realize that this is partly your fault. How did she get your money? Either you have a joint bank account or you gave it to her. If you want it to stop, then you need to have a private account or just stop giving her your money. You have to do something though because money problems are the biggest obstacle in relationships. If you are married then a lot of people will say that it is healthy to share the money. That doesn't always work. You earn the money, it is yours. You have the right to limit her spending of it or outright stopping her spending of it. If she doesn't like it and wants to leave, you have to work that out as well. If she really is spending an excessive amount of money that is not hers though, she needs to realize that what she is doing is wrong and is hurting her relationship with you.

she beat up on me and started yelling and wished i go to hell and shes layin besides me on the bed right now constantly crying shit gets old fast.

If she is your wife than you have to deal with it. You made a vow. If she is just your GF then dump that bitch.

ah yes the joys of being single...more money for me

Revan XI9 wrote:

If she is your wife than you have to deal with it. You made a vow. If she is just your GF then dump that bitch.

Don't give advice. Ever. He most certainly does NOT have to deal with it. A divorce? Not necessarily. Counseling is always a better start. But if she won't change, then there is no reason he should be punished for life. Jesus man.

NiteKrawler wrote:

Revan XI9 wrote:

If she is your wife than you have to deal with it. You made a vow. If she is just your GF then dump that bitch.

Don't give advice. Ever. He most certainly does NOT have to deal with it. A divorce? Not necessarily. Counseling is always a better start. But if she won't change, then there is no reason he should be punished for life. Jesus man.

Broke up dont need bm drama man as long as I still watch out for my kid for baby supplies and such

NiteKrawler wrote:

Revan XI9 wrote:

If she is your wife than you have to deal with it. You made a vow. If she is just your GF then dump that bitch.

Don't give advice. Ever. He most certainly does NOT have to deal with it. A divorce? Not necessarily. Counseling is always a better start. But if she won't change, then there is no reason he should be punished for life. Jesus man.

He should be punished for making the mistake in the first place. If he proposed than it is his fault. If you can just divorce your wife every time you disagree than what good is marriage.

Revan you are just a notch above this chick.

Neotris wrote:

NiteKrawler wrote:

Revan XI9 wrote:

If she is your wife than you have to deal with it. You made a vow. If she is just your GF then dump that bitch.

Don't give advice. Ever. He most certainly does NOT have to deal with it. A divorce? Not necessarily. Counseling is always a better start. But if she won't change, then there is no reason he should be punished for life. Jesus man.

Broke up dont need bm drama man as long as I still watch out for my kid for baby supplies and such

I believe Jay Z had a song that might apply here...

Spike991 wrote:

Neotris wrote:

NiteKrawler wrote:

Revan XI9 wrote:

If she is your wife than you have to deal with it. You made a vow. If she is just your GF then dump that bitch.

Don't give advice. Ever. He most certainly does NOT have to deal with it. A divorce? Not necessarily. Counseling is always a better start. But if she won't change, then there is no reason he should be punished for life. Jesus man.

Broke up dont need bm drama man as long as I still watch out for my kid for baby supplies and such

I believe Jay Z had a song that might apply here...

Haha true that but I prefer kid cudi's saying

[Kid Cudi]
I got 99 problems and they all b-tches,
wish i was Jigga man, care free livi.